Reactive Attachment Disorder Treatment in San Jose, CA

RAD Psychiatrists in San Jose & Los Gatos, CA

Children and adults who struggle with early trauma, neglect, or disrupted caregiving may develop patterns of emotional withdrawal that impact how they relate to others. At Lumos Psychiatric Services, our trauma-informed team provides compassionate, evidence-based care for Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), helping patients and families in San Jose and Los Gatos build healthier connections, improve emotional regulation, and develop trust in relationships.

If you or your child is experiencing symptoms that suggest RAD, we’re here to help.

Schedule a consultation today and begin the path toward healing

Reactive Attachment Disorder

What Is Reactive Attachment Disorder?

Reactive Attachment Disorder is a trauma-related condition that begins in early childhood and occurs when a child does not form safe or stable emotional bonds with primary caregivers. These early disruptions—such as neglect, inconsistent caregiving, frequent changes in caregivers, or prolonged institutional care—can interfere with the development of secure attachment and healthy emotional functioning.

While RAD is most commonly diagnosed in childhood, its effects can extend into adolescence and adulthood when untreated.

 

Signs & Symptoms of Reactive Attachment Disorder

RAD affects each individual differently, but common symptoms include:

  • Difficulty forming meaningful or trusting relationships
  • Limited emotional expression or difficulty showing affection
  • Avoidance of comfort when distressed
  • Withdrawal from social interaction or peers
  • Irritability, sadness, or anger without a clear cause
  • Difficulty managing emotions or coping with frustration
  • Hypervigilance or being “on guard” around others
  • Minimal response to positive interactions

Long-Term Complications of Untreated Reactive Attachment Disorder

Left untreated, RAD can lead to the following complications:

  • Ongoing difficulties forming relationships
  • Challenges with emotional regulation
  • Increased risk of anxiety, depression, or other trauma-related conditions

Recognizing these signs early allows for more effective treatment and long-term stabilization.

How We Diagnose Reactive Attachment Disorder

At Lumos Psychiatric Services, diagnosis begins with a detailed, trauma-informed evaluation that may include:

  • Clinical interviews with the patient and family
  • Developmental and behavioral assessments
  • Review of early childhood history
  • Collaboration with therapists, schools, or pediatricians (when applicable)

Our approach ensures that similar conditions—such as autism spectrum disorder, PTSD, anxiety disorders, or oppositional behaviors—are accurately differentiated.

Reactive Attachment Disorder Treatment Options in San Jose

RAD requires a thoughtful, integrative treatment plan that supports emotional, social, and developmental healing. Treatment may include:

Trauma-Focused Psychotherapy

Therapeutic approaches such as Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) help improve emotional regulation, coping skills, and the ability to form secure connections.

Parent-Child or Family Therapy

For children, strengthening the caregiver-child relationship is essential. Family therapy focuses on communication, attachment-building behaviors, and healthy bonding patterns.

Psychiatric Medication (When Appropriate)

While medication does not treat RAD directly, it can help manage associated symptoms such as anxiety, irritability, depression, or sleep disturbances—especially in older adolescents and adults.

Social & Emotional Skills Training

Improving communication, emotional expression, and relational skills can help patients connect more easily with others and feel more secure.

Lifestyle & Environmental Support

Stable routines, predictable caregiving structures, and supportive home environments are essential for long-term progress.

At Lumos Psychiatric Services in San Jose, we tailor each treatment plan to the patient’s age, symptom profile, developmental stage, and family dynamics.

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Can Reactive Attachment Disorder Continue Into Adulthood?

Yes. While RAD is diagnosed in early childhood, untreated symptoms often evolve into long-standing relational challenges in adulthood, such as:

  • Difficulty trusting partners
  • Emotional detachment
  • Avoidance of intimacy
  • Chronic anxiety or fear of abandonment
  • Identity or self-worth struggles

Adults with early attachment trauma can still heal. With the right therapeutic support, many individuals experience significant improvements in emotional stability, relationship satisfaction, and overall functioning.

How Lumos Psychiatric Services Can Help in San Jose and Los Gatos

Our clinic serving San Jose and Los Gatos provides trauma-informed psychiatric care rooted in compassion, respect, and evidence-based treatment. Whether you’re seeking support for a child, teen, or adult affected by early attachment trauma, we offer:

  • Personalized evaluations
  • Integrated therapy and medication management
  • Telepsychiatry appointments for flexibility
  • A supportive and non-judgmental environment

Healing from attachment trauma is possible. Together, we help patients build safer relationships, stronger emotional skills, and a more grounded sense of self.

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Reach out to Lumos Psychiatric Services if you notice:

  • Persistent difficulty forming relationships
  • Emotional withdrawal from caregivers or peers
  • Overwhelming fear, distrust, or avoidance behaviors
  • Irritability or sadness without clear triggers
  • Signs of trauma or disrupted attachments
  • Early intervention can make a profound difference.

 

Begin Healing Today

If you or your child may be experiencing symptoms of Reactive Attachment Disorder, Lumos Psychiatric Services is here to help.

Book an appointment today and take the first step toward secure attachment, emotional resilience, and a healthier future.

Serving patients in San Jose and Los Gatos, CA, with both in-person and telepsychiatry appointments.

Looking for help with Reactive Attachment Disorder in San Jose or Los Gatos?

Dr. Sarbani Maitra and her team at Lumos Psychiatric Services help adults and children struggling with Reactive Attachment Disorder to reclaim their lives and get more done. To schedule your RAD consultation, fill out the form below.

Lumos Psychiatric Reviews

Dr. Maitra is awesome! I can't say enough about her. She cares about her patients and has a great team of co-workers. Swati goes above and beyond and handles extra tasks for me. More than recommended for anyone who wants a great professional at an accommodating clinic with a lovely team of staff members. Thanks for everything, guys!

-A. A.

I didn't want to consult a psychiatrist because my lifestyle demanded mental health therapy. I thought I could do it all, handle it all, and be the superwoman everyone thought I was and my family expected of me...anxiety and depression took over my life and I tried everything to rise above it. In my 20s, I was diagnosed with ADHD. Left untreated, the symptoms tormented my life and hurt people I loved. Dr. Maitra is compassionate and the best psychiatrist around. She helped me understand I had a biological imbalance, not just a mental illness. She gave me the strength to share my journey without shame. Dr. Maitra has also been helping me with other private concerns, so I'm confident and hopeful I can overcome these too. Her office is gorgeous and her team handles the important aspects! I would recommend her to anyone who needs a second or third opportunity, is hesitant about a diagnosis, fears judgment, or has lost hope!

She's humble and kind. If you trust her, she can change your life too!

-I. A.

4.4
Great Doctor and staff. It's rare to find psychiatric services that truly care about the patient's wellbeing over everything else.
Lumos clinic services” entire staff team is very diligent and warm to the patients. Dr. Maitra is very thorough to check patients” symptoms and conditions. She is a very good doctor.
She had helped me in most professional organic way to treat my anxiety and adhd. She really takes time to know you.
I've had some complex problems and it took us a while to figure out the right meds. Dr. Maitra is your best ally in complex cases.

She communicates clearly, she trusts you, and it's easy for you to trust her. She's open to explaining the purpose and the mechanism of action of every medicine she prescribes. She's aware of a wide range of evidence-based approaches, keeps up with newest fancy meds and other advancements. Psychiatry is quite different from other areas of medicine, and I think Lumos is handling all that nuance exactly right.

They even conduct their own research here at Lumos! I've joined one of those groups myself, to help them figure out if an experimental med was useful for folks like me. It was a beautiful experience.
Dr Maitra is a great doctor. She helped me a lot overcoming some issues I had. As others reviews have said, she really cares about her patients. I recommend without hesitation.
Very thorough, professional and caring. I was able to an appointment in a reasonable amount of time. I trust Lumos with my care.
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Dr. Sarbani Maitra,
MD, Psychiatrist

Meet Dr. Maitra

Sarbani Maitra, MD is a board eligible psychiatrist. She has a Bachelors in Science from Tennessee Technological University in Chemistry leading up to her doctorate of medicine from the American University of the Caribbean Medical School. She then went on to gain clinical experience at Queen’s Hospital (erstwhile Old Church Hospital), London U.K. for a period of three years. She pursued her residency in Psychiatry at Meharry Medical College in Nashville Tennessee after working in research on women’s health issues at the Center of Women’s Health and Research. Dr Maitra has extensive experience working in both inpatient and outpatient settings managing patients across the spectrum with psychotic disorders, mood disorders, trauma-related disorders and patients struggling with substance use disorders. She believes in an integrated approach to mental health which includes the biopsychosocial approach. [Read More]